Zabardasti bhej to sakti hain, lekin us ka faida kam hota hai. Jo ladki apni marzi ke bagair kamre mein bethti hai wo aksar chup rehti hai, aur phir usay yaqeen ho jata hai ke counselling bhi ek aur cheez hai jo us par thopi gayi. Uske baad dobara rāzi karna aur mushkil ho jata hai.
Jo behtar chalta hai wo ye hai: sawal chhota kar dein. "Kya masla hai" ka jawab hamesha "kuch nahi" hoga, kyunke wo sawal bohat bara hai. Iski jagah specific cheezein poochein. Neend kaisi thi. Khana khaya. Ye sawal jawab dene layaq hote hain.
Dusri baat, 19 saal ki umar mein kuch had tak door hona ghair maamuli nahi hai. Farq is mein hai ke wo sirf aapse door hai ya har cheez se, including dost, khana, aur wo cheezein jo pehle pasand thi. Doosri surat zyada tawajjo mangti hai.
Aur agar wo nahi aati, to aap khud aa sakti hain. Ye kam darja nahi hai; ghar mein aap ka response badalne se aksar kaafi kuch badal jata hai.
This is general information in reply to a public question, not advice about your own situation, and it does not create a client relationship. If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services.
