Nahi. Aur jo sawal aap ne poocha hai, wo khud hi aap aur us pattern ke darmiyan ek farq hai jis mein aap bare hue.
Jo baat tauba se theek nahi hoti wo ye hai: jab tak aap chilla rahe hote hain, faisla pehle ho chuka hota hai, aur wo faisla wahan hota hai jahan dalail nahi pahunchte. Isi liye iraada karna kaam nahi karta, aap us stage ko address kar rahe hain jo guzar chuka hai.
Jo kaam karta hai wo pehle wale hisse mein hota hai, yani un minton mein jo chillane se pehle aate hain. Aur wo aksar ek halat hoti hai, waqia nahi. Thakan, paisay ki tension, adhoori larai, din jo kharab guzra. Zyadatar log do ya teen aisi cheezein dhoond lete hain jo zyadatar waqiat ka sabab banti hain, aur wo cheezein badalne ke qabil hoti hain, jabke sirf will power nahi.
Ek aur hissa jo ahem hai: baad mein kya hota hai. Bachon ke liye ghusse ki ghair maujoodgi se zyada ye maayne rakhta hai ke uske baad aap unke paas wapas aate hain ya nahi.
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