Jo aap bata rahi hain wo aam zaroor hai, lekin normal kehna theek nahi hoga. Farq samajhna zaroori hai: aam ka matlab hai ke bohat logon ke sath hota hai, normal ka matlab hai ke theek hai. Ye theek nahi hai.
Do cheezein alag alag hain yahan. Ek unka ghussa, aur doosra wo 2 3 din ki khamoshi jo uske baad aati hai. Aksar log samajhte hain ke asal masla ghussa hai, lekin jo aapko sab se zyada nuqsan pahuncha raha hai wo silent treatment hai. Usi se wo dar paida hota hai jiska aap zikr kar rahi hain, kyunke aap har waqt andaza laga rahi hoti hain ke agla lafz kya asar karega.
Ek baat khaas tor par notice karne wali hai: aapne likha ke aap darti hain. Ye lafz halka nahi hai. Ghar mein apni baat sochne se pehle taulna, ye khud ek cost hai chahe koi haath na bhi uthaye.
Aap akeli bhi session le sakti hain, unke aane ka intezar zaroori nahi. Aur jo baat hoti hai wo kisi tak nahi jati.
This is general information in reply to a public question, not advice about your own situation, and it does not create a client relationship. If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services.
